Your marriage has ended, and now you are stuck in a deep depression. All you can think about is her – how you can get her back into your life, and how the two of you can be happy again. When you say ‘I miss my wife’, here are some things that you can do to win her heart back.
Even though it is the last thing you want to do, you have to get yourself moving again. Get up and dressed, go outside. Start a new hobby – something you’ve wanted to do, but just never got around to doing. If things need done around the house, start doing them. Call your friends and hang out with them for a while.
What will these things do for you? They will make your mind think of other things. If you constantly think about how much you miss your wife, you will only go deeper into depression. Nobody wants to be around someone that is miserable, right? So, even when you don’t feel like it, you have to show her that you are OK. That you CAN live without her, even though you really don’t want to.
When you get a chance to talk to her, never talk about your past relationship. When you talk to her, only talk about good things. Keep the time you have with her short. That way, she’ll want more time with you. It’s human nature at its finest – we always want what we can’t have. When she knows that the time the two of you spend together will be short, she WILL find ways to meet up with you more often.
Take care of yourself. Don’t waste your life away, waiting for her to come back. You are a great person. You need to take care of yourself. Start walking, jogging, swimming, etc. Physical exertion makes you feel better. When you get tired, it will be a good tired – it won’t be a depressed tired. Make yourself eat right. This will also help you feel better about yourself, and all of these things will draw her back to you.
Never, ever, ever talk about the problems you had in your marriage. If you do, you will bring all the bad memories back. You only want GOOD thoughts – thoughts that will make both of you happy, and that will make both of you want to spend more time with each other. the more time spent together, the more she will want to be with you.
Don’t rush things – treasure every minute you have with her, and take your time. You will get her back, and the two of you will be happy again.